Episodes
273
Aug. 12, 2026
Starting Over: You Can Lose Everything and Still Be Okay
Lora Cheadle discovered a fifteen-year betrayal and lost the identity she built. Hear how she found herself again, one honest step at a time.
Guest: Lora Cheadle
272
Aug. 9, 2026
Anger: The Drink I Never Stopped Drinking
Couples therapist Zach Brittle on quitting alcohol, confronting the anger underneath it, and rebuilding his family one honest moment at a time.
Guest: Zach Brittle
271
Aug. 5, 2026
Surrender: The Wave That Changed Everything
A near fatal surfing accident broke Patrick Yalon's neck and changed how he sees every single day. A conversation on presence, gratitude, and showing up.
Guest: Patrick Yalon
270
Aug. 2, 2026
Reclamation: Coming Back To The Girl Who Got Shut Down
A retired engineer reclaims her voice, her breath, and her story decades after childhood shame, and finds healing at her mother's deathbed.
Guest: Lena Fein
269
July 29, 2026
Choosing the Harder Door: From Childhood Shame to Federal Prison
Ranae Van Roekel kept a childhood secret for decades until it led her into fraud, prison, and finally, the healing she never expected.
Guest: Ranae Van Roekel
268
July 26, 2026
Comfort: When Cozy Becomes a Cage
Scott Stirrett spent a decade getting comfortable. Then COVID showed him how small his life had gotten. A conversation about rebuilding comfort with uncertainty, on purpose.
Guest: Scott Stirrett
267
July 22, 2026
Fatherhood: The Fifteen Minutes That Changed Everything
Drew Norton found his infant son not breathing and his marriage on the line. A story about drifting, fear, faith, and showing up.
Guest: Drew Norton
266
July 19, 2026
Illness: When the Hard Thing Sets You Free
Actor Carly Otte opens up about facing cancer twice, losing her sense of self at thirty, and finding a gentler definition of success.
Guest: Carly Otte
265
July 15, 2026
Identity: More Than the Thing You're Known For
A world class cellist felt relief, not grief, the night her career quietly ended. Kate Kayaian on identity, permission, and starting over at midlife.
Guest: Kate Kayaian
264
July 12, 2026
Self-Worth: The Life She Fought For
Joy Kong left China at 20, survived a visa rejection and an isolating marriage, and built a life in medicine and stem cell research. A story about freedom, identity, and starting over.
Guest: Dr. Joy Kong
263
July 8, 2026
The Cost of Quiet: Learning to Speak Up After Years of Silence
Colette Jane Fehr spent years in a marriage that looked perfect from the outside. In this episode, she shares the moment she realized emotional connection had been missing all along, and what it took to finally find her voice.
Guest: Colette Jane Fehr
July 7, 2026
Bonus: Introducing Trivia, Sort Of
A quick bonus share: introducing my new show, Trivia, Sort Of, plus episode one right here in your feed.
262
July 5, 2026
Writing Your Own Story: When the Fire Reveals What Matters
Laurie Collister lost almost everything in a house fire, but her 300 handwritten diaries survived. What she found inside them changed how she saw herself completely.
Guest: Laurie Collister
261
July 1, 2026
Identity: The Job That Wasn't the Whole Story
David S. Bernknopf left CNN after 20 years, moved to Alaska on a cold call, and wrote his first novel at 68. A story about identity, loneliness, and what your kids know that you don't.
Guest: David Bernknopf
260
June 28, 2026
Adoption: The Brothers He Never Knew He Needed
T. Alex Blum grew up knowing he was adopted but never asking why. Then a 23andMe message changed everything, and he discovered three brothers he never knew existed.
Guest: T. Alex Blum
259
June 24, 2026
Adoption: The Chapter You Thought Was Finished
Adoption, Identity, and Finding Home
Guest: Rob Lynch
258
June 21, 2026
Survival as a Calling: The Boy Who Decided to Get Up
The Boy Who Decided to Get Up
Guest: Rich Harwood
257
June 17, 2026
Survival Into Service: The Night a Dog Changed Everything
A Dog, a River, and Breaking the Cycle of Abuse
Guest: Karen Diskin-Dickson
256
June 14, 2026
The Hero's Journey: Finding Yourself in the Story You Already Lived
Peter Bailey crossed a bridge on the outside of a fence just to feel seen. Years later, sobriety and the hero's journey gave him a map for every chapter of his life.
Guest: Peter Bailey
June 11, 2026
Start Here: What Is The Life Shift?
Host Matt Gilhooly introduces the show and why he created it.
255
June 10, 2026
Resilience After Amputation: Rebuilding Life From the Ground Up
Scott Martin lost his limbs at 35 after a coma. This is the story of how he chose a list over despair and rebuilt everything, one decision at a time.
Guest: Scott Martin
254
June 7, 2026
Lemon-Sized Brain Tumor: The Life That Grew After Surgery
Jen Dary was 35 when a lemon-sized brain tumor changed everything. In this episode, she shares what survival, grief, and radical life shifts really look like.
Guest: Jen Dary
253
June 3, 2026
How Misha Brown Got Sober and Learned to Be His Own Best Friend
Misha Brown shares how one question on Christmas Eve, asked in a New Jersey hotel mirror, became the start of eight years of sobriety, self-love, and a life he actually recognizes.
Guest: Misha Brown
252
May 31, 2026
Under the Surface: The Shark Attack That Taught Tim Thomas to Trust
Tim Thomas survived a shark attack off Sydney and discovered that what we need most isn't more stuff. It's trust. A conversation about isolation, sleep, and finding your way back.
Guest: Tim Thomas