What if that pivotal moment was just the beginning?

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Sept. 3, 2025

Your Story Heals: How Sharing Truth Impacts Others #shorts

Your Story Heals: How Sharing Truth Impacts Others #shorts

Even when still hurting, stories can make strangers feel less alone. Messy, unfinished stories can heal. Listening helps us do for others what we wish someone had done for us. #healing #inspiration #stories #speakingtruth

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Sept. 2, 2025

Life's Precious Moments: Embracing Love and Grief #shorts

Life's Precious Moments: Embracing Love and Grief #shorts

A poignant reflection on love and loss reveals the profound impact of grief and the unexpected gifts found within adversity. Discover how one person learned to live life to the fullest after experiencing profound loss. #grief #loss #adversity #love #inspiration

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Sept. 2, 2025

Finally Letting Go: Unlearning Rules and Living Free #shorts

Finally Letting Go: Unlearning Rules and Living Free #shorts

The journey of unlearning old rules and living for oneself. This is a clip from an episode where I share a letter to my 8-year-old self, 36 years after my mother's death. I share how I learned to let go of the need to earn love and approval, embracing the…

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Sept. 2, 2025

Overcoming Loss: When Words Finally Set You Free #shorts

Overcoming Loss: When Words Finally Set You Free #shorts

This is a clip from an episode where I share a letter to my 8-year-old self, 36 years after my mother's death. The truth of when it broke wasn't until 16, music echoing. Putting pain into words, not just an assignment, but the first time feeling loss's weight. It cracked…

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Sept. 2, 2025

Unexpected Photos: A Heartbreaking Story About Love & Loss #shorts

Unexpected Photos: A Heartbreaking Story About Love & Loss #shorts

A subtle prompting, almost ignored. A photo taken without thinking. Then, a chilling realization: this was the moment before everything changed. The photos became a memorial. #grief #loss #tragedy #rememberance #shorts

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Sept. 2, 2025

The Moment Heidi Chose to Heal

The Moment Heidi Chose to Heal

What happens when you realize you don't actually believe you can heal? After years of illness, grief, and perfectionism, Heidi Blackie asked herself one life-altering question—and it reshaped everything. In this episode, you'll hear: - The moment Heidi realized disbelief was keeping her stuck in illness - How grief, trauma,…

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Sept. 2, 2025

Losing My Son at 21: A Mother’s Story of Grief and Healing

Losing My Son at 21: A Mother’s Story of Grief and Healing

Some moments split life in two. For psychotherapist and author Sally McQuillen, that moment came when her 21-year-old son, Christopher, died in a tragic accident. In this heartfelt conversation, Sally shares how she’s learned to carry her son’s light forward while continuing to live with purpose. She talks about the…

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Sept. 2, 2025

Silence, Grief, and Control: A Personal Struggle #shorts

Silence, Grief, and Control: A Personal Struggle #shorts

Once grief spills out, it can be hard to contain. I tried to find control, but lacked the tools to handle it. I really tried my best.This is a clip from an episode where I share a letter to my 8-year-old self, 36 years after my mother's death. #grief #mentalhealth…

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Sept. 2, 2025

Heartbreak & Hope: A Mother's Vow After Loss #shorts

Heartbreak & Hope: A Mother's Vow After Loss #shorts

After an unimaginable loss, a mother recalls the strength she found in her late husband's words. She focuses on giving her sons the time and comfort they need while navigating heartbreaking questions. #grief #parenting #loss #shorts

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Sept. 2, 2025

Finding Purpose After Loss: A Spiritual Journey #shorts

Finding Purpose After Loss: A Spiritual Journey #shorts

After Rob's passing, a profound spiritual epiphany occurred. It brought acceptance and love, revealing that on a soul level, this was a choice, a soul contract embraced by both. It gave her purpose during grief. #spiritualepiphany #soulcontract #grief #loss #acceptance #love

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Sept. 2, 2025

Empathy's Power: Turning Sadness into Strength for Others #shorts

Empathy's Power: Turning Sadness into Strength for Others #shorts

Seeing sadness, the younger version of me made it my job to help others feel okay. The fear of being left behind fuels resilience. This is a clip from an episode where I share a letter to my 8-year-old self, 36 years after my mother's death. #inspiration #motivation #kindness #shorts

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Sept. 2, 2025

Embrace Your Feelings: You Don't Owe Anyone Anything #shorts

Embrace Your Feelings: You Don't Owe Anyone Anything #shorts

Sometimes, a long hug speaks volumes when words fail. It's a reminder that it's okay to feel, to break, and to be exactly where you are, without needing to perform for anyone else's comfort. This is a clip from an episode where I share a letter to my 8-year-old self,…

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Sept. 2, 2025

Shocking Call: A Coroner's News & Bilingual Confusion #shorts

Shocking Call: A Coroner's News & Bilingual Confusion #shorts

A woman recounts the moment she learned of her husband's death. The word 'coroner' was completely foreign to her, leading to a surreal and heartbreaking conversation. #grief #storytime #bilingual #Austria #Perth #coroner

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Sept. 2, 2025

Marie Alessi on Choosing Joy After Her Husband’s Sudden Death

Marie Alessi on Choosing Joy After Her Husband’s Sudden Death

What if grief could live beside joy instead of swallowing it whole? When Marie Alessi’s husband, Rob, died suddenly from a brain aneurysm while on a work trip, her life shattered in an instant. But instead of letting grief move in permanently, Marie made a quiet, powerful promise: to create…

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Sept. 2, 2025

My Son's Words Broke Me: A Promise To Happiness #shorts

My Son's Words Broke Me: A Promise To Happiness #shorts

A child's innocent words can be the most painful. Losing a parent is devastating, especially when a child says, "I'm only eight and I'm not gonna have a daddy anymore." It was a promise to create the happiest life possible. #grief #parenting #loss #heartbreak #family

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Sept. 2, 2025

Letter to My 8-Year-Old Self: A Heartbreaking Story #shorts

Letter to My 8-Year-Old Self: A Heartbreaking Story #shorts

On the 36th anniversary, I answer a pivotal question by sharing a public letter to my 8-year-old self. I reflect on the moment that changed everything and offers words of comfort and permission to feel. #emotional #reflection #childhood

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Sept. 1, 2025

Unfolding After Grief: Honoring Pain & Saying 'I Love You' #shorts

Unfolding After Grief: Honoring Pain & Saying 'I Love You' #shorts

It's about rebuilding and honoring pain, not letting it define us. This is a clip from an episode where I share a letter to my 8-year-old self, 36 years after my mother's death. I was telling him that he made it. We both did, unfolding one honest moment at a…

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Sept. 1, 2025

Timelines: Does Everything Unravel? A Deep Dive #shorts

Timelines: Does Everything Unravel? A Deep Dive #shorts

Discover how questioning everything can unravel timelines. It makes one question every conversation and action, leading to a complete reevaluation. This is how everything changes.🤯 #timeline #questioning #reevaluation #shorts

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Sept. 1, 2025

Unfolding After Grief: Honoring Pain & Saying 'I Love You' #shorts

Unfolding After Grief: Honoring Pain & Saying 'I Love You' #shorts

It's about rebuilding and honoring pain without letting it define us. 'I love you' is said, a message of enduring affection and remembrance. This is a clip from an episode where I share a letter to my 8-year-old self, 36 years after my mother's death. #grief #rebuilding #love #remembrance

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Sept. 1, 2025

A Letter to My 8 Year Old Self After Losing My Mom #shorts

A Letter to My 8 Year Old Self After Losing My Mom #shorts

Today marks 36 years since my mom died. In this special bonus episode of The Life Shift Podcast, I share a letter I wrote to the 8 year old me who had just lost her. This short clip is a teaser with a few moments from that letter. The full…

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Sept. 1, 2025

A Letter to My 8-Year-Old Self: Living 36 Years Without My Mom

A Letter to My 8-Year-Old Self: Living 36 Years Without My Mom

In this special bonus episode of The Life Shift Podcast (https://www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com) , I mark the 36th anniversary of my mom’s passing by sharing something deeply personal. Usually, I’m the one listening as guests reflect on their life-altering moments. But today, I turn the question back on myself. What would I…

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Sept. 1, 2025

A Letter to My 8-Year-Old Self, 36 Years After Losing My Mom

A Letter to My 8-Year-Old Self, 36 Years After Losing My Mom

What would you tell your younger self after childhood loss? In this special episode of The Life Shift Podcast, Matt Gilhooly shares a letter he wrote to his 8-year-old self, 36 years after losing his mom. ------ At the end of every Life Shift Podcast conversation, I ask my guests:…

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Sept. 1, 2025

Accepting Loss: Why Questions Don't Always Matter #shorts

Accepting Loss: Why Questions Don't Always Matter #shorts

The way people process the death of someone from a heart attack or cancer is different. With heart attacks, we understand why—the heart stopped. Cancer has many unanswered questions, and guilt and shame are not felt as deeply. #heartattack #cancer #grief #loss

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Aug. 31, 2025

Life Shift: Overcoming Loss and Finding Inner Strength #shorts

Life Shift: Overcoming Loss and Finding Inner Strength #shorts

Discovering a life shift moment that rivaled the impact of learning about a parent's suicide. It was a profound realization. #lifeshift #powerfulmoments

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