What if that pivotal moment was just the beginning?

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In case you need this: Jealous of Someone Else's Joy? It's Okay If You Feel That Way
June 25, 2025

In case you need this: Jealous of Someone Else's Joy? It's Okay If You Feel That Way

Jealousy can feel uncomfortable – even shameful. But it's also human. You might feel it when someone else gets the opportunity you’ve been dreaming of, or when their joy highlights something you still deeply want. This short reflection offers a compassionate reminder: jealousy doesn’t make you bad or ungrateful. It often points to a dream or desire within you that still matters. Instead of pushing the feeling away or layering it with guilt, this episode invites you to notice it, name it, and let...
Caregiving, Grief, and Loving Until the End | Tony Stewart
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June 24, 2025

Caregiving, Grief, and Loving Until the End | Tony Stewart

In this episode, I talk with Tony Stewart—writer, partner, caregiver—about what shifted the day his wife, Lynn, was diagnosed with terminal cancer, and what he learned as they walked through the next six years together.This conversation isn’t just about loss.It’s about presence.And what happens when you let yourself feel every bit of it.
Guest: Tony Stewart
In case you need this: Don't Have the Words for What You Feel? It's Okay If You Can't Name It Yet
June 18, 2025

In case you need this: Don't Have the Words for What You Feel? It's Okay If You Can't Name It Yet

Some feelings show up without warning – and without a name. You’re not sad, not exactly anxious, not even sure what’s wrong… but something feels off. And when you can’t explain it, the urge to fix it gets louder. This short reflection is a reminder that not every emotion needs a label. Not every ache needs to be solved right away. Sometimes, the kindest thing you can do is feel it – even if you don’t understand it yet. If you’ve ever woken up heavy for no clear reason, this is your permission sl...
Leaving the Expected Path – Danny Suede’s Creative Life
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June 17, 2025

Leaving the Expected Path – Danny Suede’s Creative Life

In this episode, I talk with artist and creative nomad Danny Suede about the bold decision he made as a teenager that changed everything, and how that one moment opened the door to a life he never imagined — one full of art, travel, and purposeful creation.Danny’s story reminds us that we can reimagine what “normal” looks like. That there’s nothing wrong with choosing something different. And that starting before you’re ready might just be the bravest thing you ever do.
Guest: Danny Suede
In Case You Need This: Can't Hold It All Together Today? It's Okay If You Need to Fall Apart – It's Okay If... Ep. 6
June 11, 2025

In Case You Need This: Can't Hold It All Together Today? It's Okay If You Need to Fall Apart – It's Okay If... Ep. 6

There are days when holding it all together just isn’t possible. And despite what we’ve been taught – to push through, to stay strong, to keep showing up – sometimes the bravest thing we can do is let ourselves break. If you're carrying grief, burnout, or just too much of everything, this short reflection is your reminder that falling apart doesn’t make you weak. It makes you human. You don’t have to be the strong one all the time. You don’t have to keep it all together today. You’re allowed to ...
How Sobriety Helped Ian Fee Find Real Connection
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June 10, 2025

How Sobriety Helped Ian Fee Find Real Connection

What if your superpower was secretly destroying your life?Ian Fee spent decades thinking alcohol was his key to connection – his edge in business and relationships. He built a successful career, a massive network, and a party-filled life that looked like everything was working. But beneath the surface, he was numb, disconnected, and silently unraveling.
Guest: Ian Fee
Bonus Episode: Elizabeth Rosenberg on Growth and Change
June 8, 2025

Bonus Episode: Elizabeth Rosenberg on Growth and Change

This bonus episode brings back Elizabeth Rosenberg, a past guest on The Life Shift, to reflect on her journey since we last chatted. She shares how her perspective has evolved over the months, particularly regarding vulnerability and sharing personal stories. Elizabeth emphasizes the importance of leaning into our truths and how doing so can lead to unexpected growth and healing. It’s fascinating to hear how her experiences have shaped not just her personal life but also her professional endeavo...
In Case You Need This: Not as Productive as You Used to Be? It's Okay If You Need to Slow Down | It's Okay If... Ep. 5
June 4, 2025

In Case You Need This: Not as Productive as You Used to Be? It's Okay If You Need to Slow Down | It's Okay If... Ep. 5

We live in a world that celebrates hustle – where being busy is often mistaken for being worthy. But what happens when your body, your mind, or your spirit asks you to slow down? If your energy isn’t what it used to be, or if your to-do list feels more like pressure than purpose, that’s not failure. It’s feedback. This short reflection is a gentle reminder that rest counts. Presence counts. You don’t have to produce to prove your value. Sometimes, the bravest thing you can do is stop and breathe...
Finding Her Palestinian Identity Through Generations of Silence | Leyla King
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June 3, 2025

Finding Her Palestinian Identity Through Generations of Silence | Leyla King

Leyla King grew up in a vibrant family surrounded by food, faith, and love, but she did not have the language or clarity to name her Palestinian identity. In this episode, Leyla shares how a high school film screening shifted everything, leading her to reclaim her heritage, record her grandmother’s stories, and write Daughters of Palestine: A Memoir in Five Generations.
Guest: Leyla King
Chantal Watts Returns: What’s New Since Her Life Shift Story?
June 1, 2025

Chantal Watts Returns: What’s New Since Her Life Shift Story?

Chantal Watts joins me again to dive into what’s changed since her first appearance on The Life Shift podcast. We get real about the impact of sharing her story, especially how it resonated with her former teacher and classmates. Chantal reflects on the healing power of being open about her past and how it helped her connect with those who once knew her. It's all about the significance of vulnerability and how our stories can touch others, creating community and support. This bonus episode is a ...
In Case You Need This: Thought You Were Over It and You're Not? It's Okay If It Still Hurts | It's Okay If... Ep 4
May 28, 2025

In Case You Need This: Thought You Were Over It and You're Not? It's Okay If It Still Hurts | It's Okay If... Ep 4

Healing isn’t linear. Just when you think you’ve moved on – from heartbreak, betrayal, or someone who broke your trust – something small can bring it all back. A song, a post, a memory. And suddenly you're asking yourself, “Why does this still hurt?” That doesn't mean you’re broken. It means you cared. It means you trusted. And it hurt. This short reflection reminds us that healing has no perfect timeline. Even if it’s been months or years, it’s okay if the sting still shows up. It doesn’t mean ...
Life After “Your Child Has Cancer” | Laura DeKraker Lang-Ree
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May 27, 2025

Life After “Your Child Has Cancer” | Laura DeKraker Lang-Ree

What happens when your child whispers, “It hurts everywhere, Mama”?When the unthinkable becomes your reality, how do you show up — not just for your child, but for yourself? Laura DeKraker Lang-Ree shares the moment her world split in two with her daughter’s cancer diagnosis, and the extraordinary path it put her on.
In Case You Need This: Outgrowing Who You Used to Be? It's Okay If You Have | Ep. 3
May 21, 2025

In Case You Need This: Outgrowing Who You Used to Be? It's Okay If You Have | Ep. 3

Sometimes, the life you built no longer fits who you are becoming. The old habits, the roles you played, the way you showed up in the world – it might feel familiar, but also a little tight, a little scratchy, like a favorite sweatshirt that doesn't quite belong to you anymore. That’s not failure. That’s growth. This short reflection explores what it means to feel the tension between who you were and who you're becoming. It's a quiet invitation to honor your past self – the version of you that g...
In Case You Need This: Feel Like a Beginner Again? It’s Okay If You Do | Ep. 2
May 21, 2025

In Case You Need This: Feel Like a Beginner Again? It’s Okay If You Do | Ep. 2

Starting over is never easy. Whether you're in a new job, a new city, a new relationship, or simply facing a new season of life, there's a part of us that resists feeling new. It whispers things like, "I should have figured this out by now," or "I shouldn't feel this lost." But feeling like a beginner isn't failure – it's growth in disguise. This short reflection offers a gentle reminder that the discomfort of starting over is also an invitation: "You’re not behind – you’re becoming." If you're ...
In Case You Need This: Still Grieving After Years? It’s Okay If You Are | Episode 1 of It's Okay If...
May 21, 2025

In Case You Need This: Still Grieving After Years? It’s Okay If You Are | Episode 1 of It's Okay If...

Grief doesn’t follow neat timelines – and it doesn’t mean something’s wrong with you if it still shows up years later. Whether it’s been a decade or just a season, grief can return in a song, a memory, a smell, or even a YouTube clip that catches you off guard. That ache isn’t a sign of weakness. It’s a sign of what mattered. In this short reflection, we explore why grief that lingers is part of love that lasts. You’ll hear a gentle reminder that: “Grief isn’t a problem to solve. It’s part of a ...
How Andrew Lang Learned to Stop Fixing Everything and Start Living
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May 20, 2025

How Andrew Lang Learned to Stop Fixing Everything and Start Living

What happens when your body tells you the truth before your mind is ready to hear it?Andrew Lang had built a life around doing the most. He was a teacher, a union rep, and a quiet emotional anchor for everyone around him. But underneath it all, exhaustion was building until one night, his body gave out, and that unexpected breaking point became the beginning of something new.
Guest: Andrew Lang
Introducing It’s Okay If… – A New Podcast from Matt Gilhooly
May 19, 2025

Introducing It’s Okay If… – A New Podcast from Matt Gilhooly

I’m excited to share something new. It’s Okay If… is a short-form podcast I created as part of my own healing journey — a space for bite-sized permission slips to feel what you feel and be exactly where you are. Each episode is under 3 minutes, and a new one drops every Wednesday at noon. In this short intro, I’ll share why I made this show, what you can expect, and how you can listen. 🎧 First 3 episodes release on Wednesday, May 21 Follow It’s Okay If… on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever yo...
Catch Up with Alex Knight: Life Lessons Through Music
May 18, 2025

Catch Up with Alex Knight: Life Lessons Through Music

Alex Knight joins me again to share how his life has shifted since we last chatted on The Life Shift. We kick things off by revisiting the pivotal moments that shaped his relationship with music and how those experiences continue to influence his life decisions. Alex shares that music has been a constant anchor, helping him navigate expectations and societal pressures. Since our last episode, he’s become more aware of how music plays a role in his happiness and creativity, emphasizing the import...
Speechless: Finding Voice After a Medical Nightmare | Vanessa Abraham
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May 13, 2025

Speechless: Finding Voice After a Medical Nightmare | Vanessa Abraham

Vanessa Abraham, a thriving speech pathologist and mother, was plunged into a life-threatening health crisis that left her trapped in her own body. With no clear diagnosis and a long road ahead, she found herself on the other side of the hospital bed, experiencing everything she once treated.
A Mother's Day Tribute to the People Who Carried Me
May 11, 2025

A Mother's Day Tribute to the People Who Carried Me

In this special solo episode of The Life Shift Podcast , I step away from interviews to reflect on the three people who shaped me most—my mother, my grandmother, and my father. Mother’s Day has always felt complicated, layered with grief, gratitude, and unexpected resilience. I share how losing my mom at eight changed everything, how my grandmother stepped in and became my safe place, and how my father quietly carried the weight of it all while helping me find my way forward. This episode is a t...
Where Are They Now? Marty Klein's Life Shift Story Revisited
May 11, 2025

Where Are They Now? Marty Klein's Life Shift Story Revisited

Marty Klein returns for a bonus episode where we dive into his journey since his original appearance on The Life Shift Podcast. The main takeaway from our chat is how sharing his story about losing his mom at a young age has impacted him and helped him reflect on the deeper shifts it created in his life. We discuss the nuances of dealing with grief, the importance of talking about it openly, and how sharing experiences can lead to unexpected connections with others. Marty shares how he initially...
How Allison Carmen Found Freedom in the Power of Maybe
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May 6, 2025

How Allison Carmen Found Freedom in the Power of Maybe

Have you ever felt trapped by the need for certainty in your life? Allison Carmen, a spiritual teacher, author, and podcaster, shares her journey from being addicted to certainty to embracing the power of "maybe." Allison takes us through her early years, where anxiety and worry dominated her life. She recounts the pivotal moment when a simple Daoist story about a farmer and his horse opened her eyes to a new way of thinking that would change her life forever. From Certainty Addiction to Embraci...
The Life Shift Revisited: Becca Berkey's Ongoing Journey
May 4, 2025

The Life Shift Revisited: Becca Berkey's Ongoing Journey

Becca Berkey is back to chat about her journey since her appearance on The Life Shift. We dive right into the heart of the conversation, exploring how her experiences have shaped her perspective on vulnerability and connection. Becca reflects on a pivotal moment from her childhood that introduced her to the concept of shame, and we discuss how those early experiences can influence our adult lives. There’s a lot to unpack about how sharing our stories can foster deeper connections and understandi...
Reclaiming My Life: Emily Holland's Path to Sobriety and Self-Love
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April 29, 2025

Reclaiming My Life: Emily Holland's Path to Sobriety and Self-Love

Have you ever wondered what life could be like without alcohol? Emily Holland, a podcast consultant and community manager, shares her journey of overcoming addictions and rediscovering herself through a life of sobriety and self-worth.Emily takes us through her early years, where alcohol became a constant companion from the tender age of 13. She recounts the pivotal moment on a ski slope that sparked a realization that would change the course of her life forever.